I'll talk briefly to the commitments we make to others today, but mostly the ones to ourselves, they are the easiest ones to break and to cheat ourselves of when it comes to outcomes that we seek.
I'll speak firstly of those commitments we make to others. As I write this the song by Billy Talent "Try Honesty" just keeps popping up, so let's go with that as starter to those commitments that we are being "nice" about when we weren't able to nor wanted to do, and those that we realize we're in over our heads, or just unrealistic. I'm not saying with the former that we should be rude or tactless, but honest and true will always feel better than avoidance or dishonesty. So find a nice way to decline or worst come to worst let someone down (try not to do this, obviously).
The ones we aren't ready for are actually kind of the best challenges and leave you feeling the most accomplished. Let me tell you how never having travelled before nor cycled a long distance that I was not even close to ready to cycle across a continent. And my attempts in the beginning were embarrassing, but I overcame some overwhelmingly satisfying feats of awesomeness. These commitments and their accompanying challenges are the ones I urge you to persevere through, you will grow big time!
This next one’s a tricky one. Most of the time we overcommit, but sometimes we aren’t committed enough when we need to be, or we know we should be. When we said we’d do something and then we don’t put our all into it, but we try to take the I’m doing it credit. When we say we’ll help with something and then we do the bare minimum and make excuses and apologies for not doing more. And when we do the same to ourselves and even make excuses and apologize for not doing more. We’re really stealing from and lying to ourselves here. We’re telling ourselves we’re doing it, but really we know we’re not quite, and we’re stealing from the potentially fantastic outcome we would receive if we really were 110% committed.
And then there are those in which we follow through. And unless we committed to something that wasn't true to following our hearts most usually these are amazing and help us to feel great about what we contributed to another, others, humanity, the environment, a cause we believe in or most importantly ourselves. And that isn't selfish, growing ourselves allows us to give even better of ourselves to everyone around us, humanity, the environment, a cause we believe in, etc.
So go ahead and be honest, challenge yourself when you think you can't possibly go on follow through, and create you awesomeness!
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